Secret Recipe for lasting love

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person BUT; its learning to love the person you found!

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It will NEVER just happen to you. You can't find LASTING love. You have to MAKE it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression 'the labour of love'. Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.

You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner) to succeed with your relationship.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe, there are also laws for relationships.

Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger,

Certain habits in your relationship WILL make your relationship stronger.

It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws. The results are predictable...

You can MAKE love. Love in a relationship is indeed a DECISION... Not just a feeling.





Remember this always:
'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, Who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

LOVE

爱一人

如果你不爱一个人,
请放手.
好让别人有机会爱她.
如果你爱的人放弃了你,
请放开自己,
好让自己有机会爱别人.
有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,
有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.
人生中有许多种.
但别让自己为一种伤害.
有些缘分是注定要失去的,
有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,
爱一个人不一定要拥有,
但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.
男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.
女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

如果真诚是一种伤害,
我选择谎言;
如果谎言一种伤害,
我选择沉默;
如果沉默是一种伤害,
我选择离开.

如果失去是苦，
你怕不怕付出 ,
如果迷乱是苦，
你会不会选择结束,
如果追求是苦，
你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,
如果分离是苦，
你要向谁倾诉,
好多事情都是后来才看清楚,
好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!

ZELLENT

i would to take this oppurtunity to my dearest friend's name on my blog.
this post is specially dedicated to one and only ZELLENT.
happy 19th birthday.
*wow* big boy already. tee hee =D

My wishes for you:
*Where there is pain, I wish you peace and mercy.
*Where there is self-doubting, I wish you a renewed confidence in your ability to work through it.
*Where there is tiredness, or exhaustion, I wish you understanding, patience, and renewed strength.
*Where there is fear, I wish you love, and courage.



the chocked point here is, when you're feeling lonely, I make sure i'm there for YOU! =D



enjoy mate~

Gathering

Had a gathering with high school mates and teachers.

It's just amazing how "grown up" we feel, comparing to the days we had a year back. Thinking about the many years ahead of us, a long journey awaits us. In the near future, we'd probably be looking back, feeling that we've grown even more than what we are today. Life's a journey--an unpredictable one.

Who ends up with who?
Who gets the better job?
Who earns the bigger bucks?
Who got the highest qualifications?
Who will be the first to migrate?
Who's second? Then, who's third?

Sad, but true--this is reality.

It's been only almost a year since we set out on our own journey. A journey that taught us what reality was all about. So much happened. We've all grown to realize how cruel yet beautiful life could be. Still spending time (although a lot lesser) with the same faces, just only with a more matured perspective in life. Within these days, we've all written our own story, made our own footprints, wrote our own 'chapter' and in the many years to come, will finish our now, 'unwritten book'.

I've been thinking a lot about the future lately. It happens everytime a major change happens in any one of our lives. There's so much more to learn, so much more to explore, so much more to experience. I wonder if we'd still have the chance to sit and talk about our 'past' in the future. I wonder what awaits us.

i really do miss high school times very much despite all the bitches business
which is the re run of SSS in Sunway now
i know..
sad thing
sigh..

some people just aren't happy.
nothing is ever good enough.
always quick find fault you do
and share it with anyone that will listen.

they whisper behind your back and
humiliate you so they could make
you embarass.

the only happiness they know
is when others hurt or fail.

they try to defeat you in many ways.
they seem to thrive on it.

it somehow makes them feel a
little better about their own
miserable lives..

but i will live stronger....

yes...some people just aren't happy...

i call these people HATERS..JEALOUS..LIFELESS..

Dont judge me, reading this blog. Dont call me emo. Im not. Im just feeling down. It's because of you people, people like us suffer, hiding all our sorrows and pain just so you people dont feel affected by it. Stop complaining so much. Look in the mirror urself, you'll see me too.

This is my blog. I'll say all i wanna say. I'll bitch all i want. And there's nothing you can do but to shut the hack up!!

Oh yea, and bitch, i hope u rot in ur own sick bed and die alone. I hope you'll be in pain and misery for the rest of ur life. Being abandonned by people you love, one by one. And i hope one day, everyone knows how fucked up ur life is and all the lies you have told to cover up all ur pathetic stories. You'll be sorry for what you have done. Im just waiting. I aint gona do anything to you no more. Ur just a waste of time...

things left unsaid

How much do we really know about love? Each depending on their own interpretations. Well, mine's simple. Just the mental closeness and communication between 2 individuals is enough to define love. With that, you can go on to all the physical aspects of it. I feel that people put too much emphasis on love to make it more melodramatic. Love is what it is. Why give it a whole load of different interpretations to define its meaning? It's not like it's something so big, like in the movies, we see people finding it hard to simply tell someone that he/she loves her/him. It is what it is.

What is LOVE?
Love is YOU + ME and nothing else matters =)