Thursday, December 4, 2008

Secret Recipe for lasting love

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person BUT; its learning to love the person you found!

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It will NEVER just happen to you. You can't find LASTING love. You have to MAKE it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression 'the labour of love'. Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM.

You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work. Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner) to succeed with your relationship.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe, there are also laws for relationships.

Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger,

Certain habits in your relationship WILL make your relationship stronger.

It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws. The results are predictable...

You can MAKE love. Love in a relationship is indeed a DECISION... Not just a feeling.





Remember this always:
'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, Who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

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