Forgive & Forget

I guess everyone of us are familiar and understand with the statement above, kan?
But understanding the meaning of it and actually exercising it,
its a two different things.

I bet a lot of people around us always advice others to learn to forgive and forget,
but i'm very sure that out of 100 people,
only 10 out of them really successfully applied and exercised in their daily hectic routine.

And, sadly to say, I'm among those 90 people.
I always advice others to forgive ang forget and vice versa.
But i didnt really take an effort to really understand the true meaning of it,
hence, not exercising it.

There is always a frequently asked question playing in my mind,
is it so DIFFICULT to really learn to forgive and forget ah?

I cant say its difficult nor easy.
It still depends on the individual whether s/he is ready to let go all the hatred in the heart willingly.

Forgiving someone is a NO NO easy job.
I've been through it.

I sadly admit that i've been hating a lot of people for the entire of my 19 years of life.
There is a lot of hatred in my heart.
I remembered every single little things that people did to me which i promise myself that i wont forgive and wont forget them!
And i'm not proud nor happy with it.

Come to think of it, i've wasted so much space to remember all this rubbish?!

I dont know how others may think of me or how they potrait me as how i am,
my life is suck la
I'm really tired and sick of it.
I dont want to spend my whole life doing this nonsense!
NO WAY!!

Life ain't complicated,
we're the one making it that way.

I dont know what went wrong or what actually really happened,
we shouldn't bear all these grudges!

I've drop, fell and also i di came back up.

I know i've been hurting a lot of people's feelings and as well as mine too.

I've learnt and picked up a lot of things through out the whole drama incidence in college.
And i'm ready to make a big come back!

Life is not just about hating, bitching or gossiping each other.

I've finally and proudly i can say-out-loud,
i've learnt to FORGIVE & FORGET!
I shall let got all my hatred just like how i farted =P
*boooooooooot*

Aaaahhh..
i felt really good =D

Life is short,
we dont know how long can we live,
we will die eventually.
So why wasting time hating others?

Like how Rihanna sing it,
'so live you life, eh....eh...eh...'

It took me 19 years to get it and actually practising it.

What about you?